Saturday, November 22, 2008

revelation!

According to myspace.....
PIA got a new home Im so happy moving is all done life for me is going ok !!!

This is our weekend. Guess who is not here??? Looks like it is back to playing games again. And she will pay the piper one day soon enough.

To think she accused us of taking away from her girls when we decided to have another baby. She is taking away from her own kids by playing her games. We were gonna go xmas shopping with the kids this weekend to have them buy for everyone on their lists. HAHA!!

Monday, November 17, 2008

paperwork

The paperwork arrived in mail. She is requesting "supervised visitation at a police station" outside our home due to her children coming home with headlice. Oh yeah and ring worm.

Back up to last week. The kids came to my home with lice!! I treated them. I picked their hair. She sent them to school. I waited and called the school and they were there. I don't know if the school sent them home or not.

Ring worm is something new.

Somewhere on the papers it says "he switches 'court ordered visitation' without court permission. She sends them when she wants to.

To think, this is his weekend. We will see if she sends them or not.

Life

Like sands through the hour glass...these are the days!

PIA is dragging him back to court. To modify custody.

How the hell is he supposed to pay child support if she keeps making it so he can't work? Last week he was off all week. His truck was in the shop. He is hunting. Coming home today or tomorrow. He should leave out Wednesday if his truck is fixed; and come home Friday some time. He will obviously not leave out Monday morning at 5am to work because he has to go to court with her at 1:30 pm. Than he would leave again Wednesday...that won't happen due to the holiday.

Basic breakdown...
Whole Check Friday 11/21
No check (truck in shop) 11/28
1/2 check 12/5
No check (court and holiday) 12/12

Oh yeah and she still needs child support. And we don't get gifts from church and toys 4 tots like she does. Looks like our tree will be pretty baron this year.

What the heck is she up to?

Friday, November 14, 2008

I'm a failure

I failed the 3 hour gtt test. Guess that means no more soda, candy, sweets, chips, carbs, fruit and what ever else for me.

I have been eating so much healthier this pregnancy than I did with the other 3. First one I gained about 60 lbs. Second one I gained bout 35. Third one I gained about 25. This one, 8 so far. I go back to the dr. November 24.

I am so disappointed. What exactly does a GD woman eat? Know what I am most disappointed by? I will never be able to be a kidney donor. Not a live donor anyways. For a deceased donor, they have to take my kidney with the understanding that it is high risk for failure. Plus I am at a higher risk for developing kidney failure. I am so bummed.

This will be a very quiet weekend. The guys are looking for bambi or bambi's mother this weekend up north. Hopefully, they will bring home enough meat to fill our freezer.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Family drama

Yesterday we received a frantic phone call. Superdaddy's father had gone missing. He is on psychiatric meds and this was not the first time in his history he has gone missing for a little bit. Last night, Superdad got a phone call from his dad to pick him up somewhere bout an hour from our home. Apparently, he was arrested and released and told to find a pay phone. Good thing Superdad's truck was broken down and he was able to get his father. He has no recollection of about 9 hours or so. He is missing many meds including his psych meds. He has no money, no gas, no meds and now has a court date in our state for "Operating while Intoxicated". Somehow his meds that he picked up Monday are missing. No bottle(s) to be found. His horse food is all over the bed of his truck, his lock box is gone and 4 flat tires.

More money out the rear end to get his truck from impound. Please dear let this be the end.

Remember it comes in 3's? My friends car was in accident, my car was hit while parked by Superdad's truck and again 4 days later by a school bus. My moms friends car was repoed and now dad's truck impounded...That leaves one more for the car being taken away. Oye!!

Monday, November 10, 2008

Joy of work

Superdaddy's truck died this morning.

We only have one vehicle right now. Took my car in to get the gas tank leak fixed and somehow, the brake line got punctured. Sigh. More money out the window. Drove my car all weekend with a Brick for a break pedal. Took it back to same shop.

Meanwhile, Superdaddy went to leave for work today. His truck wouldn't start. Looks like the engine is dying in the semi. Looks like it needs a major "overhaul". He will not be working at all this week. On the heals of the whole child support thing and the holiday's coming up really fast...THIS SUCKS!!

If the wheels don't move, the pennies don't add up to any size paycheck. Owner Operator told him he wasn't gonna be driving anywhere this week so the engine could get worked on. Good news is this, he can leave to go up hunting on Thursday instead of midnight on Friday.

Gonna be a long week.

Friday, November 07, 2008

Pet Lice

The ex sent the step kids over with pet lice in their hair again. I am so sick and tired of this shit. Now, a 30 week pregnant woman (me) is doing lice treatments with pestacides and spending an un-godly amount of time picking shit out of their hairs. Selfish Bitch.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Prop Eight

Though I do not live in Cali...I am disappointed prop 8 passed. I guess I figured with a African-American president and all people would look past the discrimination factor. One cannot help who they fall in love with and who they want to spend the rest of their life with. Even if the bible states: marriage is a union between a man and woman; I believe everyone should have the right to choose who they want to be with. I support choices. Today I am sad that choice was taken away from the hope of having a "sacred marriage" between two people who love each other very much.

I wish everyone just minded their own business and said: "I married who I chose to marry and I will let everyone do the same."

I hope that those who are already married in Cali are allowed to remain married and have their family as my family has been. They didn't object to my marriage, who are we to object to theirs. Sigh.

I hope my children recognize everyone has a right to love who they want to love and they don't discriminate against others whose choice may be different then the "norm."

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Life updates

So i failed my 1 hour glucose test. Got to do another 3 hour test. Fun days I tell ya.

Mom got her heat turned back on for the stellar price tag of $497.54. for a $197.54 bill. They made her put down $300 security deposit. Give me a break. The economy is terrible. If she was having a hard time paying $200 bill what the heck made them think it would be an easy task to come up with a security deposit.

Tuesday my mom's friend's car got repoed and she is using my moms car. My other sitter, her car got a hood through the front end. Friday, my car was hit in front of my moms house (mom is using the car) by a school bus. Can I cry UNCLE!! yet?

The girls did come for Halloween. We had a great time. I took the girls out and let Bubba go with his friends from school. We went by my father's parents house. The girls got so much lute it wasn't funny. In fact, each girl got more than Bubba did. We walked about 1 1/2 miles all together. I think i need to go see my grand parents more often.

We still have not heard back from the court what they will do about child support. I cannot keep worrying about it.

Hope every one's week is going well. I think I am coming down with something. My friend from high school has some major issues going on. Usually I go out on Halloween with her and her boys. She was in the hospital and I didn't want to be around her drunk husband so I went to my grandparents house. Turns out, her husband was too drunk to take her boys trick or treating. I feel like I let them down. sigh.

How do you get rid of a psycho girl who will not leave your son alone? She is driving me batty!!

GO VOTE TODAY!